Tory MP tells parents to ‘push back’ against children identifying as non-binary: 'Tell them to be proud of who they are'

Don Valley MP Nick Fletcher added that sometimes people "have to be cruel to be kind"

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Parents whose children identify as non-binary or trans should “push back” and tell them to be “proud of who they are”, a Conservative MP has said.

As MPs debated a public petition on making non-binary a legally-recognised gender identity in the UK, Don Valley MP Nick Fletcher said: “While I am here, I want to speak to parents.

“If your child comes home with these concerns, talk to them but be strong.

Don Valley MP Nick Fletcher
Don Valley MP Nick Fletcher
Mr Fletcher has urged parents to "push back" on children identifying as non-binary
Mr Fletcher has urged parents to "push back" on children identifying as non-binary

“Do not ever give into them or to peer pressure from other adults.

“Your child was born a boy or girl. Be proud of who they are. Tell them to be proud of who they are.

“Wherever their interests lie, help and encourage them. Be part of their lives, talk to them.

“Talk to them all the time. But push back on this. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

“They will thank you for it in the long run.”

He added: “If they say they are unhappy, think just for a second how unhappy they will be when their best friend is having a child and they can’t, when their best friends are dressing up beautifully and they are having to shave.

“What makes you sure they will be happy then?”

Mr Fletcher said he did accept that non-binary people “do exist”, but did not agree that legal recognition for them was needed.

He added: “I see them. I hear them. I feel for them. I want to help them.

“I say this to them: We are a tolerant nation and we accept you as you are, however it does not follow that the law has to be changed to reflect the way certain individuals feel.”

The petition, which calls on the Government to “make non-binary a legally recognised gender identity in the UK”, attracted more than 140,000 signatures from across the country.

It added that recognising non-binary as a “valid gender identity” could “aid in the protection of non-binary individuals against transphobic hate crimes, and would ease gender dysphoria experienced by non-binary people”.